During the first week of school I wandered onto a college campus. It was recruit a freshman week; the place was a plethora of welcomers, all offering new students a way to get engaged in college life. There were arts groups, religious groups, LGBT groups and just groups, groups of freshmen looking to belong to something, anything, just as long as they did not have to be on their own. Getting into college might have felt difficult, but getting in to college is often much more difficult. There is little time for discernment; one has to dive in, mix, and hope one doesn’t fall off the social bus rolling through campus.…